Its been a month since Ben started medical school. While the month has gone by quickly, it has still reinforced in my mind how long this whole thing is going to be...long. Nevertheless, we are happy, I still get to see Ben every once in awhile, and we are able to survive ok on the loan money the school has given us. I can do this for 8 years, I think.
Its also been a month since I told everyone I would send out blog updates regularly. So, this is a little later than planned, but I think I've finally figured out the whole blog thing besides how to upload video (our connection is horrible, so I'll have to find a better connection or figure out some way to do it where the upload won't get interrupted after a few hours) and how to get our little family picture (above) to upload in the appropriate size. I've figured out how to do posts, anyhow, and that is what matters most.
In a nutshell, Ben's school has been harder than he expected, finding friends has been easier than either of us expected, being at home with Whitney has been more fun than I expected, and Texas has been just as hot and humid as we both expected.
While Ben has done well so far in school, he has been a little bit surprised at how difficult it has been. The classes are very fast. He said that he learns in one day what it took him a week or more to learn during his undergrad. The classes are also extremely comprehensive. For example, Ben took two anatomy classes in his undergrad and aced them both. This one, even after only a few weeks, has been a lot more detailed and complicated than either of the classes he took before. This anatomy class focuses a lot more heavily, not only on the names and locations of everything, but what everything interacts with and how it interacts (e.g. nerves to muscles, muscles to bones, etc.). Thankfully, this first semester is pass/fail. Two weeks ago he passed his first biochemistry test, though not with the score he would have desired. Shockingly, a third of the class DIDN'T pass that test. I told Ben to count his blessings. Essentially, though things have been harder than he thought, he feels like he is keeping up.
Ben goes to school with 6 other LDS boys (men?), and has gotten to know them all very well. The church has many benefits, one of them is automatic friendships. Ben and I have been able to do several things with these students and their wives already--among them is BYU football, of course. Its been very nice to have someone to hang out with! Ben has also made friends with some other students. He doesn't like the idea of having an exclusive "Mormon clique". He has made good friends with all of his "tank mates" (3 students who share a cadaver with him ) as well as another student and his wife who are coming over to dinner this weekend.
I've really enjoyed this month of being at home with Whitney. While it gets a bit boring being at home all of the time, it has been fulfilling to build our relationship and work on her development. She started crawling maybe a week and a half after we got here, and yesterday she stood up by herself for the first time. Though I enjoy watching these developments, it has also made more work for me. She likes exploring the house and recently discovered the fridge and the cupboard with the cleaning supplies.
We like Texas a lot. BUT we still don't understand why there is so much Texas pride. Its not just a stereotype. People down here are REALLY proud of their state. If you EVER see an American flag, there will be a Texas flag (of equal if not greater height) right next too it. On advertisements Texas is used to boost people's products. For example, "Texas-style (this)" or "the size of Texas", or "best in Texas". While the people here are very friendly, and there are a lot of fun things to do, we still don't buy into the whole "Texas is best" mentality. Utah is totally better.
Anyway, this post is running a little long. Quickly, here are some fun things we've done this month: going to a Ranger's game, seeing the HUGE train set at the Children's Medical Center, going to the Irving acquatics center, hiking in the local nature preserve, Ben's birthday (we played wuffle ball, and it was a blast). I'll be better about updating next time so you won't get a TON of information all at once with very little detail about any one thing. I also plan to post pictures and video, but as I said above, I tried to upload pictures and some video I took, but our connection couldn't handle it. After we upgrade, I'll try again.